Let’s create the closeness you’ve been craving in and out of the bedroom
Understand Your Libido
Learn how your desire and arousal works so you can experience pleasure and orgasm without pressure or performance.
Feel Confident In Your Queerness
Break free from comp het and internalized homophobia so you can feel comfortable in your body and ready to go after what and who you want.
Heal Trauma & Shame
Transform pain around sex into connection and pleasure by working with your body and nervous system to heal trauma at the root.
The Feral Connection Method
The Feral Connection Method bridges the gap between insight and intimacy so you can get out of your over thinking mind and reconnect to your animal body. There, you’ll uncover your natural instincts for healing, desire, pleasure, and connection.
Reconnect with your erotic nature + impulses
Reclaim your sexual + emotional power after trauma and shame
Transform intimacy struggles into organic connection and deep pleasure
It’s time to become feral in your intimacy — to reconnect with your primal, wild, free self so you can experience deep connection an pleasure in and out of the bedroom.
Phase 1: Relaxation
Feel comfortable in your body by learning to read your nervous system's cues so you can create internal safety whether you’re feeling rage, arousal, grief, or desire. Using the Body Trust Process, you’ll begin to release patterns of shutdown and start to feel at home in your body, maybe for the first time.
Phase 2: Desire
Boost your libido and nurture your erotic self by bringing pleasure back into every day moments. Explore your kinks, boundaries, attachment, and sensuality with curiosity, not shame. Map your unique Pleasure Pathway to reliably turn yourself on emotionally and physically whenever you want.
Phase 3: Confidence
Express your desires and emotions boldly by practicing emotional intimacy with me in real time. Using my Expansive Communication Framework, you’ll build practical skills—flirting, boundary-setting, repair conversations, and asking for what you want—with honesty and curiosity so you stop overthinking and start enjoying.
Hey, I’m Danie.
And I love helping sapphics feel good.
After coming out in a straight marriage and a lifetime of navigating intimacy with complex trauma, I created the Feral Connection Method for those who dare to ask for more from their intimacy.
As a Queer Sexologist & Trauma Specialist, I’ve helped hundreds of self-aware sapphics transform pain into confidence, pleasure, and connection in and out of the bedroom.
Without pulling a hammy in a strange position or sounding like a therapy speak robot. 🤖
You don’t need more practices-
you need to understand how your body has been trying to protect you from the deep intimacy you’re longing for.
That’s what this decoder is for.
Uncover your body’s survival strategies and map out the path back to erotic freedom and real intimacy.
Deeper Connection & Pleasure After Trauma
Free, quick, and insightful
The next steps to your intimacy transformation:
1. Apply.
You’ll answer a couple questions and spend about 20 minutes on a video call so we can get to know each other a bit.
2. Share your hopes and dreams.
I'll listen with curiosity, and we’ll map out your personal path to deeper intimacy.
3. Receive your Immersion invitation.
If I truly believe our goals are aligned after our call, you’ll be invited into your own FERAL immersion. Either way, you’ll get clarity on how to connect deeper.
Connection and pleasure are waiting for you on the other side <3