Sapphic Sexologist
The Queer Sexual Healing Guide your intimacy needs.
Through body-based trauma healing and the perfect combination of pleasure and depth, I’ll make you feel as comfortable with your body, sex and intimacy as you do ordering your lavender oat milk latte- so you can feel safe in your body, in touch with your turn on, and confident in and out of the bedroom.
Lesbian Somatic Sex Coach + Trauma Specialist for queer women and AFAB folks.
Do you feel alive and free in your sex and intimacy after all your healing work?
Or are you settling for not-so-great intimacy that feels disconnected, uncomfortable or triggering because your self awareness isn’t translating to deep connection in the bedroom?
If you're craving secure and spicy connection with yourself and others, you don’t need more insight- you need to become feral in your intimacy. AKA, reconnect with your body’s primal, natural intelligence for healing, play, and pleasure that you thought trauma took away.
Be honest with me…
You’re NOT broken.
Your simply in a body that learned to survive, not enjoy.
And we can change that.
Sex and intimacy should be something you look forward to, so you can squeeze all the queer joy that’s possible from your one life.
When you experience your sexual self as a positive, pleasurable part of you, you don’t second guess if you deserve to feel good while they’re going down on you, play out stale hetero gender roles in your queer sex, or have to slam 3 tequila shots to feel confident enough to hook up with a hottie. Instead of feeling trapped by Comp. Het. and internalized homophobia, you’ll be comfortable in your queerness, your body and ready to go after what and who you want.
Hey, I’m Danie
And I’m here to show you that trauma doesn’t have to limit your intimacy.
Are you struggling with low libido, body image, and shame around your sexual self after sexual, religious or childhood trauma? Ugh I've been there too.
As a Lesbian Somatic Sexologist & Trauma Specialist, I’ve helped hundreds of self-aware queer women and AFAB folks transform shut down and fear into freedom, pleasure, and safe connection in and out of the bedroom through my Feral Connection Method. (more on that below)
This is about sex. It's also about deepening your connection to yourself, having authentic and connected intimate relationships, and experiencing more queer joy and freedom in all aspects of your life- all through the gateway of your sexuality.
I believe connection is the whole point of life, and I’m here to help you soak in as much as you want.
The Feral Connection Method
A framework for folks who dare to ask for more from their intimacy after trauma.
As a human, your body already has access to your sexual healing and awakening, but you may need a guide on this taboo journey
As a list lover with sticky notes all over my house, I’ve broken it down into digestible steps for you.
Phase 1: Relaxation
Feel comfortable in your body by using my Body Trust Process to feel more present and create ultimate relaxation and safety before, during and after sex and intimacy.
Phase 2: Desire
Boost your libido by using my Pleasure Pathway to understand your erotic self deeply, feel worthy of feeling good, and reliably turn yourself on emotionally and physically whenever you want.
Phase 3: Confidence
Express your sexual and emotional desires boldly with honesty and compassion so you can get what you want and become an amazing lover and partner with the help of my Expansive Communication Framework.
Learn about how you can experience the Feral Connection Method for youself.
You’ll feel like this…
Want a smaller step?
Deeper Connection & Freedom After Trauma
Without overwhelming your body or sounding like a therapy speak robot. 🤖
You have plenty of practices.
You need to understand how your BODY has been trying to protect you from the deep intimacy you’re longing for.
That’s what this quiz is for.
Uncover your nervous system’s survival strategy and get simple yet powerful practices to help you feel safe in your body.
Free, quick, and insightful
Reclaiming your intimacy starts HERE:
1. Apply.
You’ll answer a few questions and schedule a call so we can get to know each other and I can understand what type of support you’re looking for.
2. Receive your invitation.
If I think we’d be a great fit to work together, we’ll go over details of your own immersion and create a plan to reach your intimacy goals.
3. Enjoy the sex and intimacy of your dreams!
You’ll build and refine intimacy skills that will change the way you relate to yourself and partner(s) forever.
Connection and pleasure are waiting for you on the other side <3