Attend your own Feral Immersion- Go Beyond Understanding Your Pain and Reconnect to Pleasure
Is Self-Awareness Slowing Down Your Sexual Healing?
It’s a 1 or 3 day interactive private immersion where we’ll create trauma informed, pleasure centered experiences to bring more healing, play and connection to your intimacy.
What People Are Saying
“My partner and I are closer and more in love than we’ve probably ever been.
I also learned quite a bit about boundaries, and that its ok to stand up for myself in other relationships in my life.”
“The support and safeness you were able to create in our sessions unlocked something in me that was still locked up.
I feel so proud, so accomplished, so free and vital and strong. I hope you know I cannot overstate my gratitude for the amount of difference you’ve made in my relationship and my life.”
“You were so welcoming and put me at ease immediately.
I really cannot believe how vulnerable I was able to be with you, because I just felt so deeply that you were safe. I really learned a lot.”
What You’ll Get In Your Immersion
Move through the 3 phases on the Feral Intimacy Method at the pace that’s right for you.
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Phase 1: Building Trust
We build a foundation of trust between us, and between you and your own body so you can get the most out of our time in person.
We may focus on building intimacy skills such as:
nervous system education and working with your triggers/anxiety around sex to feel more present and comfortable
turning your focus inward to find out what your body is truly asking for
understanding your relationship and attachment patterns so you can shift from auto pilot connecting to intentional intimacy.
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You may choose to continue playing in Phase 1 or move to Phase 2 and 3, Pleasure and Communication.
5-6 hours a day, with breaks and lunch provided.
In person, we have the opportunity to explore the power of touch for your healing and growth. But nothing has to happen! Your immersion is custom built to suit you, and it may include
-self-touch (you to you)
-practitioner touch (me to you)
-no physical touch of any kind, and we explore “emotional touch” or the impact your presence has in a connection, and how to refine communication skills.
This can support you in goals like:
finding out what turns you on with clarity and let go of shame
asking for touch you want and actually receive it instead of checking out or getting stuck in your head
processing stuck emotions through the body so you can access more pleasure
practicing communicating: flirting with integrity, setting boundaries lovingly, and how to repair after conflict in ways that feel authentic and deepen connection.
*For Denver Locals:
You may choose to spread out the immersion hours over 4 weeks if preferred.
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Integration
Ensure your transformation on the retreat is integrated into your day to day life with 2 integration sessions.
I’ll answer any questions that come up and give you custom practices and resources to continue your sexuality journey once our time together is done, which may include:
book/podcast recommendations
practices to try with partners and on your own
assisting you in creating a routine or ritual of pleasure that feels sustainable
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FOCUS: Checking In
At the end of our last integration session, we’ll see if you feel like your goals have been met, or if you’d like to continue to deepen the work we’ve done.
Some folks with complex trauma histories may want more support creating a safe, supportive relationship with their body and sexuality.
There is no “right” timeline, as everyone is coming to this work with different experinces and goals.
If you want to continue our work together, we’ll create a custom plan together.
“I’ve worked on this with at lease 3 other practitioners and this is the first time I’ve felt a shift!”
-Z. , past client
I'm exited to meet you! Pick a time for a quick call then answer a few simple questions so I can get an idea of what you're looking for. We’ll talk about your intimacy goals and see if I'm the right person to support you.
FAQs
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Every immersion is custom tailored to you and your goals. Potential experiences may include:
grounding practices to feel more present and safe in your body
movement practices to express stuck emotions like grief and rage
boundary and consent practices
a spectrum of touch-from educational, to pain/tension relief, to exploring states of pleasure and arousal
visualizations to explore your erotic mind
breathwork
role play conversations asking for what you want, flirting, setting boundaries, and navigating conflict
Everything is done with your full, ongoing consent and within strict boundaries, including me remaining clothed at all times, any touch is specifically for your learning and growth, and any genital touch is one-directional (from me to you) with gloves.
In short, there’s a wide menu for you to choose what sounds most supportive to you. And you can always change your mind!
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That depends! If your goals include:
changing overnight
gathering sex tips and one size fits all advice you could ask chatGPT
trying to “hack” your nervous system to push your body into intimate situations
Then this is not the program for you.
BUT If you:
have a growth mindset
have already start your healing journey
are feeling “talked out” and want experiential learning instead of more analyzing
Then you’ll likely find a private immersion deeply transformational and supportive!
If after our connection call we determine that I’m not the best person to support you, I have a strong referral network and I’m happy to point you in a helpful direction.
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Choose between a 1 or 3 day Immersion
1 DAY: $850
3 DAYS: $2,350
Each day includes 5-6 hours of support with breaks, lunch, and online support sessions before and after your immersion.
If you book a 1 day immersion then decide to book a 3 day immersion within 60 days, your full $850 will be credited, making the 3 day immersion only $1,500.
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Most folks travel to me in Denver, Colorado. But I can also travel to you, or we can meet at a place we choose! We can discuss this and other details on our connection call.