Deeper intimacy that feels joyful instead of terrifying.
Somatic Sex Coaching and Healing Touch for lesbians, femmes, and allies based in Denver, Colorado
I’m Danie Bergstrom
Queer Somatic Sexologist, Educator and creator of the Feral Connection Method.
I believe your body already knows how to heal and feel good- it’s just about accessing these abilities beneath the layers of trauma, shame and conditioning keeping you disconnected. That’s what I call becoming feral.
But this process doesn’t involve rehashing your worst moments, enduring sex or overwhelming your nervous system. With my Feral Connection Method, healing and pleasure get to co-exist.
“The support and safeness you were able to create in our sessions unlocked something in me that was still locked up. I feel so proud, so accomplished, so free and vital and strong. I hope you know I cannot overstate my gratitude for the amount of difference you’ve made in my relationship and my life.” -M., past client
The Feral Connection Method
the only holistic sexual healing framework made for self aware lesbians* who are looking to bridge the gap between insight and intimacy.
1. Relaxation
Feel comfortable in your body using the Body Trust Process to build more safety, presence and openness in your body so you feel more at ease and build emotional intimacy skills.
2. Desire
Learn to express your authentic sexual self and receive pleasure without shame or guilt so you can reliably turn yourself on without judgement whenever you want
3.Confidence
Identify and talk about what you like with clarity so you can create the sexual and emotional connections you really want with the help of the Expansive Communication Framework.
START YOUR FERAL PATH
“My partner and I are closer and more in love than we’ve probably ever been. I also learned quite a bit about boundaries, and that its ok to stand up for myself in other relationships in my life.” -L., past client
Curious but a little nervous?
Your next steps are simple
CONNECT
You’ll answer a few questions and schedule a connection call so we can get to know each other and I can understand what type of support you’re looking for.
RECEIVE YOUR INVITATION
If I think we’d be a great fit to work together, we’ll go over details of your own immersion and create a plan to reach your intimacy goals.
ENJOY THE SEX AND INTIMACY OF YOUR WILDEST DREAMS
You’ll build and refine intimacy skills that will change the way you relate to yourself and partner(s) forever.
Connection and pleasure are waiting for you on the other side <3
“You were so welcoming and put me at ease immediately. I really cannot believe how vulnerable I was able to be with you, because I just felt so deeply that you were safe. I really learned a lot.” - A., past client
PODCAST
Sapphic Sexology
A show just for us that explores sapphic dynamics + the nuances of sexual healing and intimacy without therapy speak.
“This show is so underrated!!!”
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