Deeper intimacy and sexual healing through somatic sex coaching for lesbians and afab folks
Based in Denver, Colorado
BE HONEST WITH ME
Do you feel alive, free and connected in your sex and intimacy after all your healing work?
Or are you experiencing intimacy that feels disconnected, uncomfortable or triggering because your self awareness isn’t translating to deep trust, pleasure and connection in the bedroom?
If you're tired of your sexual self feeling compartmentalized, and long to thrive in a safe and passionate connection, it’s time to stop over analyzing and let your body lead.
GOOD NEWS
Your body has a natural ability to heal and feeling good.
And we can tap into your body’s intelligence through what I like to call becoming FERAL-
shedding the patterns of domestication and self protection that are blocking your joy in sex and intimacy.
When you become feral, you won’t freeze when things heat up, struggle with a dead bedroom, or fall into a sticky shame spiral around what you’re into.
Instead of feeling stuck in a box because of trauma, you’ll feel comfortable in your body, deeply connected to partner(s), and genuinely excited to have sex.
“My partner and I are closer and more in love than we’ve probably ever been. I also learned quite a bit about boundaries, and that its ok to stand up for myself in other relationships in my life.” -M
The Feral Connection Method: a proven body-based approach that helps you connect with your sexual self in ways that feel joyful, instead of terrifying.
1. Relaxation
Feel comfortable in your body by using my Body Trust Process to create more safety and self-compassion so relaxation around sex happens naturally.
2. Desire
Learn what you like by using my Pleasure Pathway to understand your erotic self deeply - including what you need physically, emotionally and energetically- so you can reliably turn yourself on without judgement whenever you want
3. Confidence
Talk about sex and intimacy with more clarity and less shame so you can get what you want and become an amazing lover to your partner(s) with the help of my Expansive Communication Framework.
“The support and safeness you were able to create in our sessions unlocked something in me that was still locked up. I feel so proud, so accomplished, so free and vital and strong. I hope you know I cannot overstate my gratitude for the amount of difference you’ve made in my relationship and my life.” -Z
Deeper Connection with The Feral Effect
Learn the exact body-based frameworks my clients use to turn self-awareness into approachable sexual healing in the limited podcast series.
I’M DANIE, YOUR GUIDE THROUGH THE TABOO TERRITORIES OF SEX, TRAUMA, AND PLEASURE.
I know how intimidating sexual healing can feel.
For years, I was silently struggling with low libido, disordered eating, dissociation, and shame around my sexuality after abuse and religious dogma. I was aware of why I was struggling, but I didn’t know how to get the comfortable sex and deep intimacy I was craving.
Then, with a TON of dedication (and laughter) I rediscovered my pleasure after trauma.
As a Somatic Sexologist, I believe connection is the whole point of life, and I’m here to help you soak in as much as you want.
If you’re self aware but still disconnected, let’s talk and see what’s possible.
I’d love to be your co-conspirator
*voiceover* you’re probably wondering how I got here…
Ready for a change?
Your next steps are simple
CONNECT
You’ll answer a few questions and schedule a connection call so we can get to know each other and I can understand what type of support you’re looking for.
RECEIVE YOUR INVITATION
If I think we’d be a great fit to work together, we’ll go over details of your own immersion and create a plan to reach your intimacy goals.
ENJOY THE SEX AND INTIMACY OF YOUR WILDEST DREAMS
You’ll build and refine intimacy skills that will change the way you relate to yourself and partner(s) forever.
Connection and pleasure are waiting for you on the other side <3
“You were so welcoming and put me at ease immediately. I really cannot believe how vulnerable I was able to be with you, because I just felt so deeply that you were safe. I really learned a lot.” - A
PODCAST
Sapphic Sexology
A show just for us that explores sapphic dynamics + the nuances of sexual healing without therapy speak.
“This show is so underrated!!!”