Want to feel more connected in sex and intimacy?

Healing Touch & Interactive Education For Self Aware Lesbians, Femmes, and Allies

Specializing In Sexual Trauma, Religious Shame, and Late Bloomers

I’m Danie Bergstrom

Lesbian Somatic Sexologist, Bodyworker, and creator of the Feral Connection Method.

I believe your body holds the keys to healing and desire- it’s just about learning how to access these abilities beneath the layers of trauma, shame and heteronormative boxes keeping you sexually disconnected.

That’s what I call becoming feral.

Becoming feral is how you bridge the gap between logically understanding your intimacy struggles to actually feeling more safe, connected and confident.

Buuut it doesn’t involve rehashing your worst moments or overwhelming your nervous system. With the Feral Connection Method, healing and pleasure get to co-exist.

The Feral Connection Method

the only holistic sexual healing framework made for self aware lesbians* that blends consent-based touch, connection and somatic therapy practices so you stop talking in circles and start feeling good.

RELAXATION —

Feel comfortable in your body by working with your nervous system to create a sense of relaxation, presence and openness with the Body Trust Process. Understand your triggers and your strengths to gently leave survival mode and come into connection.

DESIRE —

Learn what you like physically, emotionally, and energetically by mapping your Pleasure Profile. Dissolve the shame around your body and desires so you can stop performing and reliably turn yourself on without judgement whenever you want.

CONFIDENCE —

Ask for what you want with clarity using the Expansive Communication Framework. Get real time feedback on how your words and presence impacts me so you can notice and shift ingrained relationship patterns and become a confident lover.

಄ START YOUR FERAL PATH ಄


[ Client Stories ]

“My partner and I are closer and more in love than we’ve probably ever been.

I also learned quite a bit about boundaries, and that its ok to stand up for myself in other relationships in my life.”

The support and safeness you were able to create in our sessions unlocked something in me that was still locked up.

I feel so proud, so accomplished, so free and vital and strong. I hope you know I cannot overstate my gratitude for the amount of difference you’ve made in my relationship and my life.”

“You were so welcoming and put me at ease immediately.

I really cannot believe how vulnerable I was able to be with you, because I just felt so deeply that you were safe. I really learned a lot.

THE SAPPHIC SEXOLOGY SHOW

A show that explores the unique dynamics of sapphic relationships without therapy speak.

Click the image to watch or listen on Spotify here.