Deeper intimacy that feels joyful instead of terrifying.

Healing Touch and Sexuality Education for queer women, femmes, and allies based in Denver, Colorado

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  • You’ve spend countless hours unpacking your trauma, shame, and religious conditioning in therapy, trying breathing techniques to deal with triggers, and going down reddit rabbit holes at 2am to see if lesbian bed death is real. And it’s all helped, to a point. But when the moment comes, sex and intimacy still feels overwhelming.

    You’re not broken- there’s just one piece that gets overlooked:

    Rewiring intimacy blocking patterns in your nervous system in ways that are gentle yet effective.

    This is the deep. nuanced and fun work I offer.

I’m Danie Bergstrom

Queer Somatic Sexologist, Bodyworker and creator of the Feral Connection Method.

I believe your body already knows how to heal and feel good- it’s just about accessing these abilities beneath the layers of trauma, shame and conditioning keeping you disconnected. That’s what I call becoming feral.

But this process doesn’t involve rehashing your worst moments, enduring sex or overwhelming your nervous system. With my Feral Connection Method, healing and pleasure get to co-exist.

The Feral Connection Method

the only holistic sexual healing framework made for self aware lesbians who are looking to bridge the gap between insight and intimacy.

1. Relaxation

Feel comfortable in your body using the Body Trust Process to build more safety, presence and openness in your body so you feel more at ease and build emotional intimacy skills.

2. Desire

Learn to express your authentic sexual self and receive pleasure without shame or guilt so you can reliably turn yourself on without judgement whenever you want

3.Confidence

Identify and talk about what you like with clarity so you can create the sexual and emotional connections you really want with the help of the Expansive Communication Framework.

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“My partner and I are closer and more in love than we’ve probably ever been. I also learned quite a bit about boundaries, and that its ok to stand up for myself in other relationships in my life.” -M

“The support and safeness you were able to create in our sessions unlocked something in me that was still locked up. I feel so proud, so accomplished, so free and vital and strong. I hope you know I cannot overstate my gratitude for the amount of difference you’ve made in my relationship and my life.” -Z

Curious but a little nervous?

Your next steps are simple

  1. CONNECT

    You’ll answer a few questions and schedule a connection call so we can get to know each other and I can understand what type of support you’re looking for.

  2. RECEIVE YOUR INVITATION

    If I think we’d be a great fit to work together, we’ll go over details of your own immersion and create a plan to reach your intimacy goals.

  3. ENJOY THE SEX AND INTIMACY OF YOUR WILDEST DREAMS

    You’ll build and refine intimacy skills that will change the way you relate to yourself and partner(s) forever.

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Connection and pleasure are waiting for you on the other side <3

“You were so welcoming and put me at ease immediately. I really cannot believe how vulnerable I was able to be with you, because I just felt so deeply that you were safe. I really learned a lot.” - A

PODCAST

Sapphic Sexology

A show just for us that explores sapphic dynamics + the nuances of sexual healing and intimacy without therapy speak.

“This show is so underrated!!!”

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