Let’s get you feelin' comfortable, connected, and confident in your queer sex and intimacy
without overwhelming your nervous system.
I’m Danie Bergstrom, a Lesbian Somatic Sexologist, Trauma Specialist, and Silly Goose.
I’m the creator of the Feral Connection Method, a body-based approach that helps get under trauma patterns and access your body’s natural tendency for healing and feeling good.
BE HONEST WITH ME
Do you feel alive, free and connected in your sex and intimacy after all your healing work?
Or are you settling for not-so-great intimacy that feels disconnected, uncomfortable or triggering because your self awareness isn’t translating to deep connection in the bedroom?
If you're tired of the over-analysis and long to thrive in a safe and passionate connection, it’s time to let your body lead.
GOOD NEWS
You don’t need to be fixed.
Your body has a natural tendency for healing and feeling good.
And we can tap into it.
This reconnection is what I call becoming FERAL. Don’t worry, feral doesn’t mean chaos.
When you peel away the layers of domestication from personal and social traumas, you won’t freeze when things heat up, struggle with a dead bedroom, or fall into a sticky shame spiral around what you’re into.
Instead of feeling limited by your trauma, you’ll feel comfortable in your body, deeply connected to partner(s), and genuinely excited to have sex.
The Feral Connection Method: a proven body-based approach that helps you feel comfortable in your body, access your natural arousal with joy, and build confidence in and out of the bedroom.
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1. Relaxation
Feel comfortable in your body by using my Body Trust Process to create more self-compassion, presence, and safety so relaxation and ease about sex happens naturally.
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2. Desire
Rediscover your arousal by using my Pleasure Pathway to understand your erotic self deeply - including what you need physically, emotionally and energetically- so you can reliably turn yourself on without judgement whenever you want.
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3. Confidence
Express your sexual and emotional desires boldly with honesty and compassion so you can get what you want and become an amazing lover/partner with the help of my Expansive Communication Framework.
ABOUT ME
I know how intimidating sexual healing can feel.
For years, I was quietly struggling with low libido, disordered eating, dissociation, and shame around my sexuality after abuse and religious dogma. I was aware of why I was struggling, but I didn’t know how to get the comfortable sex and deep intimacy I was craving.
Then, with a TON of dedication (and laughter) I rediscovered my pleasure after trauma.
As a Lesbian Sexologist, I believe connection is the whole point of life, and I’m here to help you soak in as much as you want.
If you’re self aware but still disconnected, let’s talk and see what’s possible.
Transformation Stories <3
“You were so welcoming and put me at ease immediately. I really cannot believe how vulnerable I was able to be with you, because I just felt so deeply that you were safe. I really learned a lot.”
“My partner and I are closer and more in love than we’ve probably ever been. I also learned quite a bit about boundaries, and that its ok to stand up for myself in other relationships in my life.”
“The support and safeness you were able to create in our sessions unlocked something in me that was still locked up. I feel so proud, so accomplished, so free and vital and strong. I hope you know I cannot overstate my gratitude for the amount of difference you’ve made in my relationship and my life.”
Ready for a change?
Your next steps are simple
CONNECT
You’ll answer a few questions and schedule a connection call so we can get to know each other and I can understand what type of support you’re looking for.
RECEIVE YOUR INVITATION
If I think we’d be a great fit to work together, we’ll go over details of your own immersion and create a plan to reach your intimacy goals.
ENJOY THE SEX AND INTIMACY OF YOUR WILDEST DREAMS
You’ll build and refine intimacy skills that will change the way you relate to yourself and partner(s) forever.
Connection and pleasure are waiting for you on the other side <3
PODCAST
Uncensored Sapphic
A show that explores the nuances of sexual healing without fire hosing more solo practices at you.
“This show is so underrated!!!”